5 Habits That Are Secretly Harming Your Mental Health

Worst Habits For Mental Health:  In a fast-paced hustle-bustle world, we often neglect our mental well-being. We forget that mental health is as important as physical health. Habits like not creating firm boundaries, people pleasing and isolation affect emotional health in a way that over a period of time, our brain goes into a survival mode, which leads to deteriorating mental health with anxiety, cognitive decline and overall energy-depleting patterns.

Here’s A List Of 5 Habits That Are Secretly Harming Your Mental Health

How we start our day and our daily habits significantly influence our mental health. Therefore, it is important to understand these habits, recognise and replace these patterns with healthy habits to boost your overall mental well-being.

1. People Pleasing

People pleasing is a habit when you are constantly prioritising others’ needs, opinions, and approvals over your own. When saying no becomes more difficult than going through a toll of stress and panic. This habit is usually driven by a fear of rejection or conflict.

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How To Fix This?

Build health boundaries, know that people are not your responsibility, and it's okay to dissapoint other at times to protect your energy and mental well-being.

2. Checking Your Phone First Thing In The Morning

Checking your phone first thing in the morning leads to a distraction, which is all about what others are doing in their life and might also put your brain into high-alert mode, because you didn’t get the much-deserved slow morning to regulate your nervous system to take a hold of the day and rushing through everything and then barely meeting deadlines, all this leads to a feeling of draining.

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How To Fix This?

Every morning after waking up, give yourself 30 minutes with no screen time, stretch a little, read something, plan a day, or just enjoy your coffee in peace and then get started with the day.

3. Avoiding Your Feelings

When you avoid your own feelings for a long time, you brains begin to learn that feelings are unsafe. You have to feel and know why you are feeling that. Being aware of your feelings also includes going through emotional pain and then learning to get back into life. Because if you avoid your feelings for a long time, it becomes intolerable when you have to, and you won’t be able to be aware of your feelings ever again.

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How To Fix This?

Slowly and steadily, learn to acknowledge your feelings. Pause and reflect on why you are feeling the way you do and how you can work on it.

4. Complaining And Not Looking For Solutions

We all complain, and venting helps when things do not go the waive want them to. However, a long-term habit of complaining trains the brain to constantly look for what is wrong rather than actually looking for a solution, which leads to more negativity.

Constant Complaining Wires Your Brain To Only See Negative (Canva) 

How To Fix This?

Shifting perspective is not easy, but shift the way you talk about it to people, find out why you are feeling that way, and if you can’t come up with a solution, talk to people you trust, and take support when needed.

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5. Isolation

Not all days, we love socialising, but prolonged isolation makes your brain feel that social connections are unsafe, which might leave you alone most times, not able to share your feelings with everyone. You need people whom you trust, who uplift you, and to be there for you. In the same way, other people need you.

Isolation May Ruin Your Mental Well-Being (Canva) 

How To Fix This?

Intentionally reach out to people. You don’t need to have a full conversation, but even small, casual interactions work, or drop a text to someone you vibe with. You can also attend local events and try talking to new people; this might help you regulate your nervous system.

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Each of the above-listed habits seems small and not a big deal in daily life. However, in the long run, these habits shape your personality, lifestyle and leave you overwhelmed in most situations, because you never prioritised your mental well-being, and after a certain period of constantly neglecting your mental health, you will feel drained and burned out. Therefore, keep a check on these habits, consider the above fixes and prioritise your mental well-being, create firm boundaries and lead a blissful and mindful life ahead.